The Power of Online Dating

Why Internet Dating?

I’m a skinny guy, bout 6′3, by no means ugly, but by no means a bulging muscle bound model. I’ve always been a little shy, which is fine, always been a little awkward in social situations, never had much confidence in myself around women.

I had NO luck with dating. When I was 16 I got lucky and landed a girlfriend, and we were together for 3 years, but after that, I went 3 years without even 1 date. Partly because I was consumed with work and partly because I was turning women off with the way I acted around them.

But about 2 years ago I got fed up with being dateless and looking around and seeing UGLY guys with girlfriends and in most cases HOT girls. I thought if these guys are meeting these women and they’re not rich, successful or even good looking, I must be doing something wrong.

What these guys had that I didn’t have was the right attitude, the right frame of mind, and I get into this in the next chapter. So I learned everything I could about women, psychology, what makes women attracted to certain types of guys and I even read a book called “sperm wars” which is all about evolution.

I now am able to meet, talk to and date beautiful women like it’s the easiest thing in the world to do, and the only thing that changed about me was my attitude and the skills and knowledge I learnt from making lots of mistakes. I didn’t get more attractive, I didn’t become mega rich, I just learnt to be what women want.

Step 1: Understanding The Law Of Attraction!

For women attraction isn’t a choice, they either feel it for you or they don’t, it’s that simple. If a woman doesn’t feel attraction for you from the start, they more then likely never will. You cannot convince a woman to feel attraction for you. Let me explain, Just because you’re rich, attractive, successful, drive a nice car, take her to fancy dinners, buy her expensive things, that won’t make her feel attraction for you. I know, it’s not logical I get it, but women don’t choose mates on logic. They might say they do, but they don’t.

Women choose mates by their level of attraction they have for them (unless they are money hungry women after you for only your wallet) and not for what you can give them in return.

Men seem to think bribing women with gifts will make them fall in love with you, but it has the total opposite effect, women see this as you needing their approval because you don’t think you are worthy enough to date them without having to buy them things in return.

Why do you think so many women get into relationships with bad boys who treat them terribly? Because these guys trigger an attraction inside these women. It’s not logical, I know, but it’s a fact. I’m not saying you have to treat women terribly to make them feel attraction for you, but you don’t have to cater to a womans every need.

Women would rather date a poor guy with no money who’s charming, funny, cocky and just a fun date then a guy who’s rich, buys them things and is stuffy and boring. Women want what women want and you can either be what they want or be what they don’t want, it’s your choice.

This isn’t about changing you to suit women, it’s about showing you that you don’t need to do all these things to make women attracted to you, you don’t need to bribe them, you don’t need to stress if one woman doesn’t like you, this is your life, you choose who you date, not the other way around.

What Women Want

Women when asked will say they want a nice guy who treats them like a princess and pretty much have no balls of his own. They like the idea of getting flowers and having a sensitive guy to talk to about their problems.All women will tell you they want to date the nice guy or that they can never seem to find a nice guy to date.

The problem is this isn’t exactly correct. These women aren’t lying when they say they want these things…. on the surface they do, because it makes sense, it makes sense to want a guy like this, but on a subconscious level, they really want a man who takes control and acts like a man should

So what qualities do women want in men?

Men! Read and understand this and hardwire the next statement into your brain! What women have always wanted and always will want are men who act like men! NOT wussy boys who hang on to their every word and seek their for approval for every darn thing!

I know this sounds harsh, but it’s true.

Have you ever noticed the following?

When you give a girl a compliment or tell a girl how beautiful she is she shy away from you ? BUT when you notice a flaw about her she will get more involved in the conversation and take you more seriously.

Have you ever noticed….

When you buy girls gifts and take them to expensive dinners they end up later that night thanking you for a great evening and going out with another guy? But if you just go for a quick drink and act like you are equals she feels attracted to you because you’re not catering to her every whim.

Have you noticed when….

You call a girl often after a date and she seems distant and funny but when you don’t call her and you act like you’re busy and could live with her or without her, she won’t stop calling you. Women don’t want to be catered to, hounded, and treated like princesses or any other rubbish your mother told you about dating.

What Women Want From Men

This is from my experience what women want from a man …..

They Want You To Be Confident

They Want You To Take The Lead

They DON’T Want You To Get Emotional

They Want You To Be Fun With No Hang Ups

They Want You To Make Them Laugh

They Want You To Make Them Wonder

They Want You To Be Interesting

They Want You To Know What You Want From Life

Want to learn how to do those things…. read on!

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